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Tuesday, January 23, 2007

As throng as Thropp's wife

As throng as Thropp's wife. The phrase means very busy. Nobody knows who Thropp is and why his wife is so busy. According to what i found on Lycos IQ, The full phrase is apparently - "As throng as Thropp's wife. Shoo brewed, weshed an' baked on t' same day, then 'anged 'ersen wi' t'dish-claat." Gutenberg project suggests that even in 1850 the origins were not known. Another version of the full phrase is "As throng as Thropp's wife when she hanged herself with the dishclout.

I'm not to discuss this saying and it's origin. I put the title above to describe my wife condition and it's impact on my nerve and perturbation. She's always been busy all this time but we still have time to talk on the phone and voice chat on YM. I fully understand the situation and never blame her for not being there when i wake up in the morning. I accepted her choice to stay in Tokyo and pursue her career until i finish my study. We basically agreed on the "division of labor".

Everything was fine until she'd got promoted three weeks ago. She became more and more busy and we don't have enough time to chat. When i complained, she said again what she used to tell me that she allows me to find another woman if i need someone beside me. I was happy to hear that one year ago and praised her prudent but now it sounds to me like she loves her career more than me. Another woman is not what i need. Damn it,,, i don't want another woman. Another woman -if i could afford to have one - can only give me sex. Sex isn't all i need, i need love and care.

And You,,, Yess youu, Can you read it? You are the only one who can give me the love i need. You'v made me addicted and dependent on your love. You can't just tell me to find another woman. It's not that i don't trust you, i know you will never cheat on me but to find that you love your career more then me is killing me. I found it an unfaithful behavior and it hurts me more than you think. Am I selfish now, or it's you? Do you really think i'm a quick-tempered person who really needs an anger management treatment? If you read this, i just want you to know that I love you. Marissa,,, I love you. Damn It!


Anonymous susie ( www.thekannes.nl ) said...

If you read this, i just want you to know that I love you. Marissa,,, I love you. Damn It!

heheheheh , it sounds so sweet ...

Mudah2an Marisa baca deh !!!

3:08 PM  
Anonymous kenny said...

udah jauhan berapa lama sih? mosok hanya gara2 3mgg trus senewen banget, bagi dia waktu dulu...jgn nurutin hati yg gi emosi.

6:16 PM  
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11:56 PM  
Anonymous tyka82 said...

brati, saya jjuga tergolong wanita yg As throng as Thropp's wife dhonk...

hehehe.. *sok sibuk*

10:26 AM  
Blogger sinceyen said...

What is love?

Semoga kalian cepat menemukan jalan keluarnya.

6:42 PM  
Anonymous alaya said...

i visit your blog for the first time. met kenal. i was in cairo last year ;)

7:44 AM  
Blogger NiLA Obsidian said...

sabar....katanya cinta
kho jadi protective gitu sih?

cinta = egois

7:29 PM  
Anonymous aroengbinang said...

If this is not an experiment, then it's a delicate situation.

Repeatedly asking a husband or a wife to have sex with others is a dangerous game. It's equally dangerous threatening a devorce or rejecting spouse to have sex everytime there's an argument or disagreement.

Belittle spouse that he or she has no more chance to attract a lover is also a killer.

Love and sex is of course inseparable. Whilst one can fall in love without demanding sex, or others may have sex without love, yet the fusion of love and sex is one of the most powerful FORCEs on earth.

Whilst my experience taught me not to chase after a moving shadow, as it's futile most of the time, I just hope that your faith on her can be the saviour. Salam.

3:23 PM  
Blogger Mamah Ani said...

sorry nggak nemu SB, lama nggak nongol ya, apa karena judul postingan ini ?....trims doanya, doa yang sama untuk ananda

2:09 AM  

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